by Lani Gouws | Mar 17, 2021 | Couples Therapy
In a new relationship, you’re driven to be attentive toward your partner and to nurture the relationship. In a long-term relationship it takes intention, energy, and work to keep the love alive. Nothing kills the romance faster than falling into a boring...
by Lani Gouws | Feb 17, 2021 | Couples Therapy
A long distance relationship is difficult, but not impossible. Although you may have strong feelings for your partner, time apart and lack of intimacy may put a strain on your bond. Nobody says it’s going to be easy. The extra miles make many things...
by Lani Gouws | Jan 27, 2021 | Couples Therapy, General
Love is cultivated during the grind of the day. You can still find ways to connect more intimately with your partner, no matter how long you’ve been together. If you want more depth and intimacy, you’re going to have to develop more emotional connection. ...
by Lani Gouws | Jul 1, 2020 | Couples Therapy
Human nature dictates that we speak our minds. Progress is usually the result of someone raising an opinion. Everyone has needs and getting them in the context of your relationship is important. All couples argue, but it’s the way you argue that’s critical for the...
by Lani Gouws | May 20, 2020 | Couples Therapy
Virtual therapy has become more popular over the past decade. In many cases, during the COVID-19 pandemic, it has become the only way to gain access to the services of the couples therapist of your choice. Some couples may even find that online counseling has...
by Lani Gouws | Apr 15, 2020 | Couples Therapy
Not all relationships can handle the tension of indefinite and close proximity. This time of isolation can be a period of great growth or great struggle in your relationship. If you’re feeling stressed out about the impact of the pandemic on your relationship...